1. When you first start liking someone, you usually:
A. Communicate consistently and enjoy staying connected.
B. Engage at a steady pace and let things unfold naturally.
C. Keep things light and let interest grow gradually.
2. When someone’s energy becomes harder to read, you tend to:
A. Stay engaged and maintain connection.
B. Check in, clarify, and continue at a comfortable pace.
C. Give space and observe how things develop.
3. Your approach to boundaries is usually:
A. Flexible — you adapt based on the dynamic.
B. Clear — you express what works for you.
C. Reserved — you set them internally and adjust quietly.
4. Your texting style early on looks like:
A. Consistent and conversational.
B. Steady, intentional, and paced.
C. Minimal, light, and to the point.
5. When expressing what you want, you tend to be:
A. Thoughtful and considerate with your timing.
B. Direct and clear when the moment feels right.
C. Selective and measured in how much you share.
6. If the other person pulls back a bit, your instinct is to:
A. Maintain connection and stay present.
B. Match their pace and stay grounded.
C. Allow space and focus on yourself.
7. When it comes to emotional presence, you usually:
A. Offer openness and warm connection.
B. Balance presence with independence.
C. Share intentionally and at your own pace.
8. Your natural dating energy is:
A. Warm, supportive, and relationship-oriented.
B. Grounded, confident, and steady.
C. Independent, calm, and self-directed.
9. Most people describe you as:
A. Someone easy to talk to and feel close with.
B. Someone who feels steady and confident.
C. Someone intriguing and a bit mysterious.
10. In past dating experiences, you’ve noticed:
A. People feel comfortable opening up to you quickly.
B. Connection builds smoothly and naturally.
C. Initial spark is strong, then deeper connection takes time.
Answer Key:
**MOSTLY A’s — The Connector
Warm • Engaging • Relationship-Forward
You’re naturally open, expressive, and easy to bond with.
People feel comfortable around you because your presence feels welcoming and emotionally accessible.
You tend to create attraction through:
authenticity
emotional warmth
genuine connection
steady communication
showing care in simple, natural ways
Your energy makes others feel seen, valued, and understood — which creates deep levels of trust and closeness.
Your growth edge:
Making sure connection builds mutually by allowing others space to invest in you too.
**MOSTLY B’s — The Anchor
Grounded • Confident • Calm Presence
You lead with a balanced, steady masculine energy.
You’re comfortable showing interest, but you also stay rooted in your own identity, purpose, and pace.
You create attraction through:
confidence that doesn’t need to be advertised
clear communication
a calm, grounded presence
emotional strength
balanced independence
Your energy feels reliable and self-assured — the kind that brings both safety and desire.
Your growth edge:
Continuing to choose relationships that match your level of depth and clarity.
**MOSTLY C’s — The Mystique
Independent • Intriguing • Self-Directed
You carry an energy that feels compelling and slightly elusive — the kind of presence that draws people in without trying.
You tend to create attraction through:
self-possession
quiet confidence
independence
depth that reveals itself slowly
strong internal focus
Your vibe invites curiosity. People often feel intrigued by your sense of individuality and the way you move through the world at your own pace.
Your growth edge:
Letting others in gradually so connection can grow alongside your independence.