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Intimacy and Relationship Coaching for Men & Couples in Minneapolis, MN



Nilki is a Certified Life Coach, specializing in sex, intimacy, and confidence coaching for men and couples.

She is the founder of The Pleasure Practice and author of The Pleasure Practice Workbook, the curriculum which is the foundation of The Connection Coach-a privacy-first, AI-Powered Intimacy Coaching Platform powered by unique pattern recognition software, personally tailored to each individual, and offering a tangible, practical approach to improving the skill of intimacy. Nikki is also the author of The Intimacy Archives, a library of articles of thoughtful, straight-talking articles about sex, relationships, confidence, desire, communication, and the psychology behind how we connect-warm, direct, and always free from shame or judgement.

With a background in massage therapy spanning experience in modern western chiropractic centers, high end spas, and extensive experience in wellness centers and holistic eastern medicine practices, her work is grounded in a deep understanding of the human body. Her background in philosophy has helped to shape her approach to both coaching and to life, and she is currently completing a dgeee in psychology to deepen her understanding of the human mind and how we interact with and relate to one another. She has been working in the field of sex, intimacy, and relationships for over a decade, and her approach is informed by neurochemistry, evolutionary psychology, and attachment theory. 

Private coaching for men who want to build more confidence and better communication for stronger relationships and a more fulfilling life.



This work is about far more than just sex.

 

It is about Self-Awareness.

Self-Acceptance.

Communication.

Empathy.

Connection.

Implemenatation.

 

I believe that intimacy is a skill, and pleasure takes practice. 

 


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Confidence in intimacy is not something that anyone is born with, or just knows.

It is something you build.

The ability to communicate clearly, flirt naturally, express desire, feel comfortable in your body, deepen connection, and receive pleasure without shame is not magic. It is not luck. And it is definitely not reserved for other men.

These are skills. 

And, just like any other skill set, they must be trained.

My work is designed to help you stop guessing, stop performing, and start experiencing intimacy in a way that feels grounded, honest, and deeply fulfilling.




In-person Intimacy, Connection, & Confidence Coaching for Men & Couples in the Twin Cities & surrounding suburbs.


Begin your journey of self-discovery, grow your knowledge and confidence in the bedroom, or practice your dating skills & polish up your pick up lines in my interactive, hands-on, in-person, educational coaching sessions.


Virtual Relationship & Confidence Coaching for Men & Couples


Personalized coaching sessions to build self-awareness and confidence, explore your sexuality, strengthen your communication skills, improve your intimate relationships with yourself and others, all from the comfort of your own home!

 



 

You want to feel as competent & confident in your relationships as you do in so many other aspects of your life.

You want to feel sought after.

You want to feel wanted!

And You Deserve To!


In-Person Intimacy Coaching in Minneapolis–St. Paul + Virtual Sessions

In-person intimacy, confidence, and relationship coaching is available throughout the Minneapolis–St. Paul Metro area, including Minneapolis, St. Paul,  Wayzata, Edina, Bloomington, and surrounding Twin Cities communities. Virtual coaching is available nationwide.



The Connection Coach: An AI-Powered Intimacy Coaching App


Discover your Erotic Archetype, identify and learn to maximize your strengths, target weaknesses & track improvement over time, identify patterns, and achieve your goals with the Ai Intimacy Coach-available 24/7, right there in your hand! Get the empathetic, non-judgmental, expert insights of Nikki the Sex Coach, combined with all the capabilities of Ai to improve your relationships, up your game in the bedroom, explore your erotic side, and so much more! With extensive analytics, pattern recognition, and in-depth tracking capabilites intertwined with the intuition of a human being, see your personal life improve like never before!



Fill out the short form below to inquire about a complimentary initial consultation, or to contact me with other questions you may have. I am here to help!


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Location: The Pleasure Practice

1150 Wayzata Blvd, Minnetonka, Minnesota USA