Size DOES matter-But Not in the Way You Think!

Tailoring Sex to Your Penis Shape, Size, and Style!

Let’s clear something up: there’s no perfect penis.

There's your penis. And that’s the one we’re working with—and working well. Because pleasure isn't a one-size-fits-all situation. It's a beautiful game of angles, pressure points, and rhythm. Think of this less like porn—and more like physics with benefits.

Whether you're long and lean, thick and filling, curved like a question mark, or somewhere deliciously in between, understanding how your unique anatomy interacts with hers is the real secret to mind-blowing sex.

Here’s how to use what you’ve got to make her see stars.

🔍 The 3 Dimensions of Pleasure (and your Penis!!)

1. Length: The Long and Short of It

If you're on the longer side
You're working with a sword, not a dagger—so be mindful. Deep penetration can feel incredible, but it can also bump the cervix. Positions that allow her to control depth—like cowgirl or reverse cowgirl—are ideal. Or try spooning, which offers deep connection without going too deep physically.

If you’re shorter or average length
Guess what? You're in luck. You can go hard and fast in nearly any position without causing discomfort. Try doggy style with a pillow under her hips or lotus for closeness and depth.

2. Girth: Wide Load or Slim Fit?

Thicker penises
You create intense stretch and fullness. Positions like missionary or spooning allow for controlled, gradual insertion. Use plenty of warm-up and clitoral stimulation beforehand.

Slimmer girth
You're the MVP of flexibility. Try scissoring or side-by-side spooning to maximize tightness and friction. Bonus: your shape lets you last longer and switch positions more freely.

3. Shape: Straight, Curved, or Hooked on Pleasure?

Upward curve
G-spot jackpot. Missionary with legs raised or doggy with an arched back are your go-tos.

Downward curve
Spooning and flat missionary create pleasurable pressure on the posterior wall. Deep and grounding.

Left or right curve
Use side-lying or angled cowgirl to press into her sensitive sidewalls. That twist? It’s magic.

🔥 Penis Type Power Play: Your Personalized Pleasure Strategy

Let’s break it down by your specific type—so you can master the positions, angles, and techniques tailored to you.

💥 Long & Girthy (aka The Full Buffet)

Traits: Fills depth and width. Powerful, but requires control.

Positions: Spooning, modified missionary, cowgirl (her in control).
Angles: Go shallow. Use pillows to limit depth.
Foreplay: Absolutely essential. Let her warm up.
Hot Tip: Let her lead the rhythm, especially early on.

💥 Short & Girthy (aka The Fireplug)

Traits: Compact but intense. You’re all about pressure and fullness.

Positions: Scissoring, tight missionary, pillow-supported doggy.
Angles: Keep her legs together or wrapped around you.
Foreplay: Oral, manual, or toys to open her up before you enter.
Hot Tip: Grind more than thrust. Your girth does the work.

💥 Long & Slender (aka The Deep Diver)

Traits: Deep reach, gentle entry. Built for stamina and elegance.

Positions: Doggy, lotus, legs-up missionary.
Angles: Emphasize length with full-stroke positions.
Foreplay: Keep it dynamic—switch positions often.
Hot Tip: Use transitions to your advantage. You stay in; she stays moaning.

💥 Long in Length, Average Girth (aka The Long & Lean Lover)

Traits: Balanced build with long reach. Comfortable yet commanding.

Positions: Lotus, spooning, standing doggy, knees-to-chest missionary.
Angles: Tilt her hips up. Thrust upward, not straight in.
Foreplay: Tease with shallow strokes and clit play.
Hot Tip: Use your reach to stay connected during transitions.

💥 Average in Both (aka The Goldilocks Guy)

Traits: Adaptable. Everything fits. Nothing’s too much.

Positions: Missionary, cowgirl, doggy, standing.
Angles: Play around—you're flexible.
Foreplay: Keep variety high.
Hot Tip: Use rhythm and pressure variation to surprise her.

💥 Short & Slender (aka The Precision Instrument)

Traits: Slim and agile. Made for finesse, not force.

Positions: Reverse cowgirl, tight missionary, face-to-face spooning.
Angles: Use elevation to shorten the vaginal canal.
Foreplay: Dual stimulation is your secret weapon.
Hot Tip: Fast thrusts, long sessions. You’re the energizer bunny.

💥 Curved Left/Right (aka The Sidewinder)

Traits: Lateral curve that teases the sidewalls.

Positions: Side-lying, twisted cowgirl, missionary with a hip roll.
Angles: Let her twist her hips to match your curve.
Foreplay: Angle your fingers or toys to match your curve’s pattern.
Hot Tip: Use figure-8 or spiraling hip movements during thrusting.

💥 Curved Upward (aka The G-Spot Seeker)

Traits: Your upward curve is practically a built-in toy.

Positions: Missionary (legs raised), arched doggy, flatiron.
Angles: Thrust toward her bellybutton.
Foreplay: Warm up the G-spot with fingers first.
Hot Tip: Add a vibrating cock ring for maximum impact.

💥 Curved Downward (aka The Deep Pressure Pro)

Traits: Grounding, deep, and slow-burning.

Positions: Spooning, flat missionary, low doggy.
Angles: Aim down and thrust slowly.
Foreplay: Lower vaginal wall teasing builds anticipation.
Hot Tip: Combine with clitoral stimulation for top-to-bottom pleasure.

Next, take the QUIZ--and discover YOUR unique penis type below--to perfect your postitions & maximize the POWER of your PENIS!!

🧠 Penis Type Power Play Quiz

Find Your Shape. Master Your Game.

1. When fully erect, how would you describe your length?
A) Shorter than average
B) Average
C) Longer than average

2. What best describes your girth (thickness)?
A) Slim
B) Average
C) Thick

3. Do you have a noticeable curve?
A) Yes, upward
B) Yes, downward
C) Yes, left or right
D) No

4. Which best describes your build?
A) Long & slender
B) Short & thick
C) Average all around
D) Long & thick
E) Short & slim

5. What feedback do you get from partners?
A) “You go deep”
B) “You're really full”
C) “That curve hits perfectly”
D) “You're just right”
E) “I want more stretch”

6. Do you ever worry about discomfort due to your size?
A) Yes—too deep
B) Yes—too thick
C) No
D) I wish I had more sensation
E) I focus more on technique

7. What’s your go-to sex style?
A) Deep and slow
B) Intense and filling
C) Intentional and curved
D) Balanced and rhythmic
E) Creative and playful

🧠 Quiz Results

Mostly A’s – The Long & Lean Lover
👉 See the Long in Length, Average Girth section. Use your reach and rhythm—don’t go deep too fast.

Mostly B’s – The Girth God
👉 You’re either The Fireplug or The Full Buffet. Maximize pressure, minimize haste.

Mostly C’s – The Curved Casanova
👉 Check The G-Spot Seeker, Sidewinder, or Deep Pressure Pro. Your curve is a weapon.

Mostly D’s – The Goldilocks Guy
👉 Average in both? You’re a versatile sex god. Explore everything.

Mostly E’s – The Precision Instrument
👉 Slim & short? You win at finesse. Think rhythm, creativity, and dual stimulation.

Final Thought:
You don’t need to wish you had a different size—you just need to learn how to work what you have. Pleasure isn't about comparison. It's about precision.

And now? You're equipped to deliver it like a pro.

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Now get out there, and test out those new moves!!!!